Stonking New Year’s prayer for myself
So I plan to share here a no-holds-barred prayer for myself that unapologetically asks God for absolutely everything maritally, every last thing …
So I plan to share here a no-holds-barred prayer for myself that unapologetically asks God for absolutely everything maritally, every last thing …
So it is the beginning of yet another New Year, and you are still single! Well you’re in great company! (Points at …
New years are a great time to take stock, and look back in gratitude for the year that has just ended, and …
I’ve written so many posts here about how to pray for a marriage. I guess it would make sense for me to …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This post is really just about trying to find yet another creative way to thank the person who might have …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This very brief post was written to reassure readers that I was fine, despite not posting on my blogs for …
These are further useful prayers to pray for my spouse and marriage. In prayer I roughly subdivide my time between the 3 …
I’ll admit that the title of this post is quite unusual! For many years, I’ve been puzzling over the idea of prayer …
I’ve just published this post on my other blog. However, for some reason, I feel compelled to post it here too! ———————————————————— …
Well a few things have happened recently. The conclusion I have come to is that I seriously have to find me a …
In my many thoughts about marriage, something that I have thought about a lot is a constructive way of handling difficult issues, …
OK, before I write the characteristic for this week, I would like to take some time to thank the person who has …
Hyperpigmentation Video 1 Thursday 11th April 2024 Hyperpigmentation Video 2 Weds 24 April 2024 Some vocab: Dermatillomania, or obsessive skin picking is …
Well I shot this video a few hours ago, and edited it. Since then however I have been busy with other work …
Abuse Adultery Ambition Anger Attraction Better Married or Single? Boundaries Building an excellent foundation for your marriage Character Commitment Communication Dating Different …
So it was the 9th birthday of this blog last month, but I could not log in because I was locked out….and …
I’ve just gotten off the phone to a dear Aunty who is setting up a ministry for mature single women. Oh man, …
Well I was just reading yet another post about how to deal with “toxic people”. And here are a few thoughts on …
A few provisos before I launch into this post proper. This post is quite spontaneous, so please forgive me if it lacks …
EDIT ADDED 5TH OCTOBER 2018 Well in the two days it has been since I wrote this post, I have actually been …
Well today has been a seriously “interesting” day, and not in a good way. This is an old-fashioned term, but I’ve definitely …
So today I would like to talk about something that to be honest, I would much rather not have to admit to. …
Addlog: ********** 22 July 2018 Someone who will pull his own weight domestically, without needing to be asked, begged or nagged ********** …
I’ve been thinking a lot about mental health recently, both within and outside the topic of relationships. Thankfully God has blessed me …
I really don’t have much time to put together a post today, so this is going to have to be very short …
(Actually most much of the time these days my name is not Tosin – but that is a different story!) So… my …
And so here we are at the point when I am finally asserting that when it comes to friendships, you have to …
Well I recently came across a certain article. In it, the writer described how she had taken a vow of sexual purity …
So today I find myself in the position of wanting to make substantial changes to an existing post. But how to do …
Quick answer: whatever you have prepared, so prepare well. This blog is not really the place for this particular post. However I …
Well it turns out that thi s day of the year, October 16th, has historically been a very prolific date in the …
Someone once asked me how I knew that my husband was not going to be unfaithful. And I just stared! It is …
This post has been majorly revised, the new version is available here: https://blog.huggie-wuggie.com/editing-why-it-is-so-hard-to-find-an-outstanding-spouse/ I initially drafted out this post back in March …
This post is *so* long overdue! This blog turned six years old back in March! So yes, it has been six years! 6 …
Well after I had read the post referred to in my own previous post here on this blog, it got me thinking …
And so, I finally started writing out the post for “my determination for myself as a wife.” But guess what?! It is …
Well it has been a while since my last Huggie-Wuggie post, and I felt that I needed to explain to you all …
I’d like to apologise to anyone who has been reading this blog as I have not exactly been the epitome of humility …
Before launching into “my biggest fear”, a little admission. A few days ago I sat down and tried to write a blog post …
Recently “Nigerian Facebook” (that is Facebook as used by people of Nigerian descent or association) has been alight with the story of …
Well after what seems like months of not quite getting around to writing a post, I am in exactly that kind of …
Firstly, I really want to apologise if it seems that I have been blowing my own trumpet so much on this blog. …
I’ve been reflecting on the post I recently wrote about adultery. I’m so sorry if I was graceless in my post. There …
Well I’ve just written a post which was indirectly all about trying to communicate my needs to my husband – as usual! …
Despite being on this blog, this is a post that is purely about friendships, with people of either gender! So over the …
Apologies in advance: this is a particularly waffly post! It is a subject that I struggle to understand, so I have literally …
Well I have been thinking as always about relationships. I can’t quite remember how the following thought process happened in my mind, …
Disclaimer/Confession: I actually thought of this post a few days ago, while I was typing out my last post. However, as I …
The ideas I hope to express in this post first occurred to me months and months ago. However, they were some of the …
The slogan on this graphic reads:“Only God can give you the love you’re looking for, and only God can give you the …
This is the second attempt at writing this post. My mind is like jelly right now, perhaps because I have been eating …
Well you know how I said that I might be winding down activity on this blog? And I explained the reason why?! …
This is a message for…surprise surprise – a certain someone!Can I tell you something?! I hope that this is not completely over …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE**********I think that the ideas contained within this post are going to be most useful within marriage itself. However, it is …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This post is relevant for anyone else who also struggles with awkwardness as I do. In terms of stages it …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** I think that this post is relevant to people who are considering whether to get married, for instance people who …
You don’t genuinely care, about me, or God. You are just interested in adding some extra multicultural kudos to your prayerless gathering, …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This post is relevant for anyone else who also goes to church, examining a few similarities between “church” and “a …
I think I’m actually going to dedicate a category here on this blog to big fat hints, starting with this post! I’ve …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** If what I describe in this post is truly how many of us “fall in love”, then I think that …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This is such a personal post – ha ha ha! Possibly an example (yet another one!) of how to be …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** As this is an open letter to my husband, it is quite a personal post about my life, so it …
Dear Lord, If there really is someone out there praying for me; investing his time, effort and determination to make a deeply …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** I think this post is most relevant for people who are single and ambitious. It provides a new way of …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** Once again this post concerns general sexual purity, so I believe that it is generally useful for everyone no matter …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This is not about any particular relationship stage but is written to encourage sexual purity at any stage. ******************************************* Guilt …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This post will hopefully challenge people to imagine what it would be like to be married to them, so I …
I would like to start this post with what is now becoming a customary thank you to whoever may be praying for …
Well I was thinking away about people in general, and remembering some issues I found myself having to shake my head. I …
In this post, I would like to offer further clarification about the “true concern” post. As I was originally writing that post …
In this post I am going to address something that should really be central to this blog, but is not. That is, …
In this post, I would like to present to you something which has been my ongoing, quiet nightmare for a while. …
Well I recently wrote a post where I thanked an unknown someone for praying for me. I’ve been meaning to write a …
I think it is fair to say that the idea of wifely submission has been one of my biggest hang-ups about marriage …
Here I’ve tried to list down all my own personal values regarding dating and relationships. This page is likely to change a …
OK, I’ll admit it. I have just raced through writing my blog post on my other blog so that I could finally …
This post builds a little on last week’s post, about what friendship is “really”. This new post seeks to examine the subject …
I must admit that it is somewhat embarrassing for me to have to write this post. After all, this concerns something that …
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here I used to beat myself up with these …
(Only because I could not bring myself to call this post “What it means to be hot!”) After I posted last week’s …
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here. However, if you had simply allowed yourself to get …
In this blog post I would like to write about my personal conviction regarding “the two year thing”. For people who do …
As I start typing this it is already past midnight, and we are now technically into Monday, where usually I would type …
In my last post, I looked at a new and simple way to approach relationships before marriage to give each marriage the …
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here POTENTIAL PROBLEMS: This is possibly the biggest potential problem …
This is as usual a blog post that I have been thinking of for some time. I was thinking that in a …
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here In a way, I feel then that this message …
This is the second part to this post. The first part is available here Following on from this, here are a few …
Well today (that is, when I first wrote out this post) I was going to publish a post about building a heavy-duty …
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here If you have identified an issue in your spouse, …
This week I have been sifting through a number of Huggie-Wuggie posts. While doing that, a few thoughts occurred to me. The …
OK, so within the week I found myself in a position of crying out to God in frustration about a number of …
This is a blog post which might seem to say the opposite of what I usually say. However, by the grace of …
(UPDATE 28th July 2014 This post was split off from an earlier existing post.) Something that strikes me now as it has …
Over the course of the week, I have been thinking away about marriage, as always. For anyone who follows this blog, you …
I have been thinking a lot about unconditional love recently. After starting off here on this blog with a number of posts, …
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here Actually, with my big dreams about life etc (and …
A funny postscript to last week’s post: Someone asked me whether my prayers had worked yet! While yes, I believe my prayers …
I’ve previously written a post about how to pray for a spouse. This post here builds on that previous post. This new …
This is the third part to this post. The other parts are available here: Legitimate self-concern versus “unconditional love” in marriage Part …
This is the second part to an article posted last week Part 3 of this article is available here The three parts …
I’m going to apologise in advance as this post is largely about myself, so it might have limited relevance to other people! …
Happy Easter Sunday to everyone, happy Resurrection Sunday! Well, as this is Easter Sunday, mindful of the sacrifice that Christ made for …
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here When we are dreaming happily about marriage in general …
Let me start off by quickly saying that if I could choose between having a brilliant marriage and having a brilliant life …
This is the fourth part of this post. The first is available here The second is available here The third is available …
All parts of this post are now available together as a single free ebook in a full variety of ebook formats here …
I don’t know why it is, but my mind will be buzzing with interesting and exciting ideas for blog posts all week, …
In my posts, I refer a lot to “dating”. I often speak quite negatively about it. Here, I thought I would clarify …
I sometimes wonder why it is in the midst of hard times that people break up. I always think that that is …
[This post contains quite a long preamble – so here is a link to jump straight to the actual content of how …
Last week I considered the subject of how to be confident, even from before marriage, that a future spouse will keep getting better …
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here Overtaking? Sometimes, if someone is aggressively pursuing excellence, even …
The content of this post is now available as a free ebook from Smashwords, in a wide variety of formats here When …
This post is about mathematical issues regarding finding a spouse, and why I believe people (and especially women) should have the courage …
This is the second part to this post. The first part is available here If you got married as a Christian to …
I think it would probably be most honest of me to admit that a big reason why I am almost insisting to …
Well anyone who has been following this blog at all will know that I have not posted here for a while. The …
This is the third part to this post. The first is available here The second is available here So anyway, finally, a …
This is the third part to this post. The first is available here The second is available here This then is the …
This is the third part to this post. Part 1 is available here Part 2 is available here So you’d think that …
In which Tosin… I am very conscious of the fact that I might give the impression that I am perfect, or that I …
Answer to a question from a Facebook friend: “What do you think differentiates two people who are going out from ordinary friendships?” …
OK, the second subdivision in the First essential Characteristic for my husband is a commitment to remain committed to and deeply rooted …
After defining the different parts of the first characteristic (that I will look for in a husband) over the last 2 weeks, …
Well last week I started expressing the essential characteristics that I am looking for in my husband. I started off with the …
OK, well in recent weeks I have spoken about necessary criteria for my marriage and the interaction between me and any potential …
Well I’m only referring to this criterion as no 3 to be orderly/methodical, as over the course of the week I have …
I have just made a very drastic reworking to this criterion. Before reading on to Criterion No 1, please check out this …
Thank you to everyone who has submitted a comment on my previous blog post, “What if I never get married?” On thinking …
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here I just cannot accept these thoughts. It makes more …
This is the second part to this post. The first part is available here OK, and then you think – “hmm, honestly …
Apologies from the outset if this sounds like a negative blog post. I don’t want to sound as if I’m prophesying negatively …
This is a letter not to my future husband, but rather to my holy, excellent single Christian brothers. Dear Brother, if you …
Joshua Harris – I Kissed Dating Goodbye Many of my thoughts on relationships which could potentially lead to marriage and also my …
This article was originally written for my Facebook weekly Sunday Notes feature on Sunday 17 October 2010 ———————————————————————————— Proverbs 18.22 “He who …
OK, I think that I can admit that this is a very big deal for me! I guess it’s fair to say …