A husband equals…a glass ceiling? Part 4
This is the fourth part of this post. The first is available here The second is available here The third is available …
A husband equals…a glass ceiling? Part 3
This is the third part of this post. The first is available here The second is available here All parts of this …
A husband equals…a glass ceiling? Part 2
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A husband equals…a glass ceiling? Part 1
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Happy Mothers’ Day!
Wishing Happy Mothers’ Day to all the mothers, grandmothers, aunties, family friends, sisters and other ladies who have helped shaped us into …
The difference between love and infatuation
Well Happy Valentine’s Day everyone! In honour of Valentine’s day I am going to write today on a subject that is very …
Thoughts about Communication
Here are some thoughts that I have been thinking about communication. I used to think that communication would be comparatively easy within …
Communication Issues – Continued
Well after writing last week’s post on communication, I was reflecting a bit and thinking that there might be lots more reasons …
Merry Christmas from Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie!
Ah, so Mr Huggie-Wuggie, it seems as if you have managed to elude my grasp for this year also?! Thank you to …
Communication Issues are often Character Issues, Trust Issues
I’ve been thinking a lot about “communication” in marriage. Various wise and knowledgeable people refer to it as the lifeblood in any …
I don’t love you any more!
I sometimes wonder why it is in the midst of hard times that people break up. I always think that that is …
My attitude to Internet Dating
This is a blog post that I’ve been thinking about writing for a long time. A number of people have advised me …
How to pray to receive a spouse – one way
[This post contains quite a long preamble – so here is a link to jump straight to the actual content of how …
Everybody changes!
Last week I considered the subject of how to be confident, even from before marriage, that a future spouse will keep getting better …
The difference between no-one’s perfect…and no-one’s perfect Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here Overtaking? Sometimes, if someone is aggressively pursuing excellence, even …
The difference between no-one’s perfect…and no-one’s perfect Part 1
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Ditching the toxic “marriage maths mentality” Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here Actually, I believe that everyone has the potential to …
Ditching the toxic “marriage maths mentality” Part 1
This post is about mathematical issues regarding finding a spouse, and why I believe people (and especially women) should have the courage …
Ladies – know your cycle!
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Obedience first, understanding later Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first part is available here If you got married as a Christian to …
Obedience first, understanding later
I’m going to start this post with what is now a customary apology for not having posted here for what is now …
Musings on “No matter what”, and bringing the best out of your spouse
I think it would probably be most honest of me to admit that a big reason why I am almost insisting to …
My dream Valentine’s Day!
Well anyone who has been following this blog at all will know that I have not posted here for a while. The …
Overview of Marriage Continued
OK, this is an addition that I’ve been meaning to post since I wrote the last post – overview of marriage. And …
Overview of Marriage Part 4
This is the fourth part to this post. The first is available here The second is available here The third is available …
Overview of Marriage Part 3
This is the third part to this post. The first is available here The second is available here So anyway, finally, a …
Overview of Marriage Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here I also think that it is so powerful to …
Overview of marriage Part 1
Well this week, I had planned to write a blog post that was titled “Just because he loves you does not mean …
Just because he marries you…
OK last week, we looked at the Proverb of the Milk and the Cow, which encourages ladies to insist on the highest …
When Tosin met….or when Tosin went crazy! ;) Part 3
This is the third part to this post. Part 1 is available here Part 2 is available here So you’d think that …
When Tosin met….or when Tosin went crazy! ;) Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here So what exactly about him was it? Honestly, to …
When Tosin met….or when Tosin went crazy! ;) Part 1
In which Tosin… I am very conscious of the fact that I might give the impression that I am perfect, or that I …
Embracing “The Wait” Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here More waiting: So the Wait for me can be …
Embracing “The Wait” Part 1
This post comes to you courtesy of a question asked by a certain sibling of mine – about addressing “the Wait”. Before …
Putting the Kingdom first
Well, I’ve literally just completed a post on my Bible blog about how God’s highest priority for the world is its salvation, …
Re – more on when the relationship starts
Answer to a question from a Facebook friend: “What do you think differentiates two people who are going out from ordinary friendships?” …
Your Wedding day is NOT your marriage! (Sweetie!)
This is a blog post especially for the ladies out there! Actually, you know what? I think weddings SHOULD be celebrated elaborately, …
This blog and you!
Or, who this blog is for. Firstly, thank you for reading this blog! I am grateful and honoured to anyone who is …
Thank you for your prayers!
OK, before I write the characteristic for this week, I would like to take some time to thank the person who has …
Why I don’t care about your money – Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here It annoys me when someone drives up in a …
Why I don’t care about your money – Part 1
This is a wall post I recently borrowed from a Facebook friend to post on my own Facebook wall: “To all the …
Very drastic reworking! (Of Criterion No1)
Well, the truth is that I continue to think about my blog posts after I have written them, and I mentally edit …
As Christ loved the church…
Ephesians 5v25 “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her….” OK, so last week …
Positive Expectations!
OK, once again I’ve been assessing my own thoughts about marriage. I’m very aware that my thoughts and my writings have been …
What if I never get married? – a postscript
Thank you to everyone who has submitted a comment on my previous blog post, “What if I never get married?” On thinking …
What if I never get married?
This post concerns a very interesting question, one I have asked myself countless times over the years – what if I actually …
Is there only one? Or knowing the will of God in marriage Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here I just cannot accept these thoughts. It makes more …
Is there only one? Or knowing the will of God in marriage Part 1
OK, this is a post that I have been thinking about for quite a while. I have found myself getting into discussions …