A Business-Minded Spouse as a Business Investment
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** I think this post is most relevant for people who are single and ambitious. It provides a new way of …
Sexual Purity: More Thoughts
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** Once again this post concerns general sexual purity, so I believe that it is generally useful for everyone no matter …
Talking about pornography and sexual fantasies
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This is not about any particular relationship stage but is written to encourage sexual purity at any stage. ******************************************* Guilt …
Marriage is not an “eat as much as you like” buffet!
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** I think that this post is relevant to all relationship stages, but most useful before marriage to help get a …
December Posts to Write? Short Summaries
Dear Huggie-Wuggie Reader, I would please appreciate your input in choosing the posts to write for December. A number of exciting post …
December 2014 Posts to Write Poll
Please choose 4 answers. The top 4 answers will get written up as posts. Closing Date for votes is Thursday 27th November …
Married to Myself?
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This post will hopefully challenge people to imagine what it would be like to be married to them, so I …
November ideas that have occurred to me (to be voted on)
1. How to encourage someone to be the best they can be 2. I want to be so beautiful for you, my …
Welcome to the friendzone!
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** I think that this post is most relevant for people who are single and looking, struggling with feelings for one …
Sample Newsletter
Dear {field1}, I hope this week is going excellently for you! Lots of exciting things have been happening here at Huggie-Wuggie Central …
The interaction between personality and character
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This post is about evaluating someone‘s personality and character before getting romantically involved with them, so I’d say it is …
October posts to write – ideas that have occurred to me in October/ish
1. Married to myself: Woman in china, recent woman, etc WRITTEN 2. Welcome to the friendzone!WRITTEN 3. Relationship ambivalence – can’t remember …
Acting like an idiot!
Well I’ve just written out a blog post just to try to express my thoughts regarding this “awkward thing”. To be honest, …
Awkward!
Wow, as I sit here typing at this post, I am giggling away, for a number of reasons. A significant reason is …
Unhappily single?!
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** I’d say that this post is most relevant for people who are single, or who might be going out with …
Funto Ojumu on Sexuality
Please check out this video of one of my relatives discussing her views on sexuality! [youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v_BESQP_0W8[/youtube]
Still Talking about Two Years!
This is a postscript that I have been meaning to add ever since I wrote the last post on “Two Years”. There, …
OK, what should I write about?!
This is a quick post asking for some reader input on the following issue: My biggest struggle with this blog is to …
Presenting myself to you in weakness
I would like to start this post with what is now becoming a customary thank you to whoever may be praying for …
Playing hard to get – further thoughts
This is a short addition to the existing thoughts I have already expressed about playing hard to get. One further reason why …
Further thoughts about two years…
Well I was thinking away about people in general, and remembering some issues I found myself having to shake my head. I …
Why people don’t listen
In this post I would like to offer a few thoughts on why … people don’t listen How women make themselves cheap …
True concern – Postscript
In this post, I would like to offer further clarification about the “true concern” post. As I was originally writing that post …
Dear Mr Potential Huggie-Wuggie…About awkwardness and vulnerability
This post is directed towards any man who could potentially become my very own Mr Huggie-Wuggie, to explain myself and my possible …
Further prayers for my marriage
These are further useful prayers to pray for my spouse and marriage. In prayer I roughly subdivide my time between the 3 …
So many ways to have a great marriage… And yet…
I was thinking recently over some of the thoughts that I have expressed here, and a few other ideas. And something that …
Where does true concern come from? And where does it go?
In this post I am going to address something that should really be central to this blog, but is not. That is, …
What if my husband won’t listen to my ideas?!
In this post, I would like to present to you something which has been my ongoing, quiet nightmare for a while. …
Why marital prayer is like your kidneys
I’ll admit that the title of this post is quite unusual! For many years, I’ve been puzzling over the idea of prayer …
Why we need each other!
Well I recently wrote a post where I thanked an unknown someone for praying for me. I’ve been meaning to write a …
Waiting for You!
Please check out this beautiful rendition of poetry about waiting for the right man. [youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZuraJpB0OJg[/youtube] [Comment Details]
Further thoughts about Submission
I think it is fair to say that the idea of wifely submission has been one of my biggest hang-ups about marriage …
My Personal Values
Here I’ve tried to list down all my own personal values regarding dating and relationships. This page is likely to change a …
Moving back to London?! Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here While I was in London, thankfully I did not …
Moving back to London?! Part 1
Well I recently celebrated another anniversary of my arrival here in this beautiful city. I love this city so much. However, from …
OBSESSED!!!! And rightly so! And about time!!!!! And *proud* of it!!!!!
OK, I’ll admit it. I have just raced through writing my blog post on my other blog so that I could finally …
Struggling against an overactive imagination!
By the grace of God, God has blessed me with a very strong imagination. This is possibly the single biggest gift that …
Joy and Sadness!!!
This is a spontaneous blog post that just needs to be written right now! I am writing this blog post from a …
The difference between “friendly” and “friendship”
This post builds a little on last week’s post, about what friendship is “really”. This new post seeks to examine the subject …
What is friendship really? Part 2
After writing last week’s post on “What is Friendship?” I’ve been thinking a little more about the subject. What occurred to me …
What is friendship?
I must admit that it is somewhat embarrassing for me to have to write this post. After all, this concerns something that …
Thank you for your prayers – Again!
I’ve just published this post on my other blog. However, for some reason, I feel compelled to post it here too! ———————————————————— …
What it means to be attractive Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here I used to beat myself up with these …
What it means to be attractive Part 1
(Only because I could not bring myself to call this post “What it means to be hot!”) After I posted last week’s …
Lord, please give me a Prayer Warrior!
Well a few things have happened recently. The conclusion I have come to is that I seriously have to find me a …
Love is sincerely not about the other person! Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here. This post is all about contradictions. Having said that …
Love is sincerely not about the other person! Part 1
Let me firstly apologise for not blogging here for a few weeks. I’ve been otherwise occupied! During that time, my mind has …
The strange balance of marriage
I’ll start with a confession: I have only just thought of this blog post right now, while I was writing the postscript …