Integrity report: Explaining the concept of “mind-lies”, also thoughts on racism, sexual purity
TL; DR: Do not allow unholy or impure thoughts to grow in your mind. Rather, you need to brutally excise them with …
Couples who need to get back together: Finnish PM Sanna Marin and her handsome husband Markus Raikkonen
(Please note, I have not watched the video above, I have linked it as it was the first video I could find …
Speaking of Community…
Well I’ve just recently watched this video on YouTube. I agree with each and every point that this man has made here, …
Clarifying my remarks: to make it clear I have big time for everyone!
You know, not too long ago I wrote about “yes” and “no” people. Actually I updated those names, and cannot now remember …
Talking once again about the physical attraction thing…
You know, I was thinking recently about how I used to be physically attracted to a certain guy. I went on and …
Dear Mr “Someone”, I need to let you know that I have all the time in the world for you!
I did write this in my last post which I have just published, but it is buried towards the end, possibly missable, …
Once again, I’m asking myself: “Is this real?!”
Well literally just yesterday, (or actually the day before now) I posted a post here asking whether some feelings that had descended …
Is this truly real? Or am I making it up?! 🤣🤣🤣
This is one of those posts which I am going to really struggle to articulate. This is because and only because I …
Why there is so much error in the church – apart from all the reasons I have already mentioned!
Well a few days ago I came across this YouTube video and shared it on my Facebook profile: How The Megachurch Destroyed …
Relax girl, God’s got this – if you give it to Him!
Of late, there has been a particular situation in my life which has been somewhat…interesting! I have been praying about it, but …
Talking about disdain…again
Well I was casually minding my own business, and then some thoughts came into my mind about a certain someone whom I …
To blog…or to sleep?!
I have written many times on this blog about how I often blog when I should be asleep. This is because my …
I aspire to this level of maturity. Wow.
So I was doing my daily perusal of YouTube, and I came across this video. I initially clicked on it because it …
Practising compassion towards people I have left in the past, establishing new vital vocabulary and also possibly creating a new subblog…
As I was “working along” today, I was thinking again, reflecting on the fact that many of the people I have encountered …
This week from Reddit: The husband and the laundry hamper
So I have just been reading some AITA relationship posts from Reddit. The particular story that I would like to talk about …
Open letter to my future husband
I just really want to say, I really want this! By the way, this is probably the shortest letter that I will …
Do you really believe? [HUGE RANT]
DEFINITION: When I talk here about “Evangelical Christians”, I am chiefly talking about some people I met at university, at the Christian …
Talking about Tithing, again
Well I just finished watching a sermon on tithing, and I just want to quickly pen down some words. Firstly let me …
When humility finally strikes
[Other posts to write: Practising sexual consent within marriage, also needing to be attuned to my husband. My alternative to “falling in …
Talking candidly about sex, PS
Well I wrote that post, and I was confident as I was writing it. But then overnight I was struck with a …
Dear Church, it is time to give our all to our God
I really should be in bed right now, and I hate being irresponsible with my bedtimes. However I felt this strong compulsion …
Talking candidly about sex
TL:DR; One of my many, many, prayers about sex is that God would empower my husband and me to be candid with …
Crying over what I don’t have
Well I have just recently read a post about the “gender pay gap” when it comes to buying a house. And you …
The Church Conundrum, PS
Well…I’ve just spoken once again to my father tonight. And we discussed going to church and he asked me whether I was …
Crushes versus true emotional compatibility
Whenever I have been hit by a crush, it has always been quite a big thing. I have had 2 humongous crushes …
Frustration!
(Once again, I would like to thank anyone who might have been praying for me. Honestly, I cannot begin to tell you …
New humility mantra
I know that the word “mantra” has connotations specifically from another faith. This can also be called an “affirmation” or a “declaration”. …
The wrongest possible way to be “in the right”!
Before I start, I would once again like to thank anyone who might be praying for me. The rate at which understanding …
Cracking the church conundrum…
So I went to a church for the last two Sundays, on 12th February and then a week later on 19th February. …
Thank you for your prayers! Or, Prayer is my love language
You know, this weekend I had really hoped to spend some time writing a few blog posts. Time has truly run away …
Please disturb me!
Well I have just written a post where once again I referred to the fact that I am ambitious. And I was …
The question is not whether or not it is “true love”. The question is whether or not they are truly worth loving
Apologies this post is a little bit all over the place. It is essentially in brain dump format, rather than the format …
How to say “No” – yet further thoughts
I was just reading through an external article about being assertive. Actually, I just read the first part of the post. Assertiveness …
The problem with men…[or Please rescue me Mr Huggie-Wuggie!]
On this blog, I have often stated, very matter-of-factly, that guys fall for me very easily. I have not been bragging about …
Dealing with feelings of jealousy
TL:DR; We are all made in the image of God, we all have unique potentials and capabilities. I LOVE to see people …
Unconditional love versus selflessness
Over the last 11 months since the war in Ukraine started, I have been posting daily prayer requests to my Facebook account. …
Non-confrontational? (For want of a better title) – or offering pre-emptive explanations
As I have recently written on this blog, I am extremely busy at the moment. lf anything that was an understatement, which …
Condescending
Let me put my hands up and admit that I do this – a lot! In fact, a heck of a lot. …
Dear Mr Potential Huggie-Wuggie, will you please sing for me?!
If as a man you are reading this, you might sometimes be tempted to think that I only care about my own …
A fairly terrible story (Will poss think of better title later)
Well I’ve just read a fairly terrible story which got me thinking…a woman was suddenly ditched by her boyfriend, out of the …
Post Ideas: Fri 6th January 2023
[Sorry, this post has not had even an initial edit. I have been writing it in such a tired state, and now …
Different post thoughts
It is past 3.00 am as I start this post and I so need to be sleeping! However, I have already been …
Dealing with social pressure to spend money
TL;DR: I simply unfriend people Typing as someone who is proud to be a Nigerian, and grateful to be a Christian, I …
There’s something about vanlifers…
So yeah, I’ve been watching lots of vanlife videos over the last few months. I’ve been considering vanlife for myself because of …
Recommended relationship schedule
1. Evaluate for character. In practice, this will be via two-yearing. This might sound like a huge waste of time, and as …
And…back to the blog, again!
Wow it has been so long since I directly posted here on blog.huggie-wuggie.com. This is largely because I have been posting on …
Thinking about post-wedding dating
[A reminder to everyone, just in case this post does not make sense: as born again Christians we aim to avoid pre-marital …
The difference between love and lust – again?!
Here I am writing out this post…again! You know, I think I’ve finally got it, after such a long time of trying …