Married versus single relationships blogger – which is better?!
I’ve just spent a few hours reading through another website; isn’t it funny how so many of us feel qualified to give …
Happy 6th Birthday to Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie!
This post is *so* long overdue! This blog turned six years old back in March! So yes, it has been six years! 6 …
My long-lasting relationships
Well after I had read the post referred to in my own previous post here on this blog, it got me thinking …
That thing when… (external post)
It has been so long since I last posted that I was honestly scared to look at the date of my last …
And so…
And so, I finally started writing out the post for “my determination for myself as a wife.” But guess what?! It is …
The “Looking Good” Thing
So here is an idea that I’ve been wanting to write about for a few months now. This idea is a little …
More thoughts on marital prayers
I’ve written so many posts here about how to pray for a marriage. I guess it would make sense for me to …
Rethinking this two year thing!
Well you know this weekend I could so have written two substantial Huggie-Wuggie posts – at least! But you know what I …
Dating your man after the wedding!
Well it has been a while since my last Huggie-Wuggie post, and I felt that I needed to explain to you all …
Born to submit to you (my darling)!
Well I don’t think that it is any secret that the Biblical theory of automatic submission from a wife to her husband …
How marriage is both conditional and unconditional
Here’s the thing: I believe that to a certain extent marriage has to be conditional. Unconditional love is one of absolutely the …
No Huggie-Wuggie Post today – sorry! :) :)
Well it’s been a little while since I wrote an article here on Huggie-Wuggie. This weekend I’ve been extremely keen to write …
A little bit of humility…
I’d like to apologise to anyone who has been reading this blog as I have not exactly been the epitome of humility …
Tosin’s List: Part 3: Desirable Characteristics
HUGE HUGE PROVISO! Before I publish this post, I want to make it clear that I know that I really, really, have …
Further Essential Characteristics 16 July 2016
TEMPORARY POST: To September 30 2016 This post expands the post “Essential Characteristics for my husband“ ———————————————————– A few further thoughts I …
Coming soon: Tosin’s List: My determination for myself as a wife
I want to make it clear that I know that I really, really, have to write a post about my own determination …
Tosin’s List Part 2: The Essential Characteristics
This is the second part to this post. Part 1: Why the List: Available here Part 2: The Essential Characteristics: THIS POST …
The Primacy of Friendship OR putting friendship first
This is an idea that has only really crystallised in my mind today. On this blog I have spoken so many times …
Tosin’s List! Part One – Why the List!
Edit: 2nd July 2016 Now that I’ve had a chance to think about this a bit more, I think that this post …
My biggest fear…just now!
Before launching into “my biggest fear”, a little admission. A few days ago I sat down and tried to write a blog post …
Aaaaaaand…back to the real world!
Well yesterday I published quite an excited post about how amazing everything is, and my beautiful dreams of a beautiful marriage, and …
Happy 5th Birthday to Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie!
So the fifth anniversary of this blog occurred all the way back in March! That’s five years of thinking about marriage, and …
The problem with “just leave”
Recently “Nigerian Facebook” (that is Facebook as used by people of Nigerian descent or association) has been alight with the story of …
Taking Marital Advice from a single woman?!
I recently came across a Facebook post about marriage. You know, one of those facebook posts giving all sorts of helpful encouraging …
Yet another “Haven’t posted for so long!” post! – Or, passionately in friendship
Well after what seems like months of not quite getting around to writing a post, I am in exactly that kind of …
A story that needs to be told – PS
This is a post script to my last post, available here. Well after writing my last post a few weeks ago, a …
A story that needs to be told…
Firstly, I really want to apologise if it seems that I have been blowing my own trumpet so much on this blog. …
Communication Meltdown!
Recently I found myself down one of those internet article rabbit holes, where I will almost compulsively start reading one article after another, …
The Character Characteristics
Well last night I wrote and published quite an angry post about unexciting aspects of male character that I would find hard …
The Characteristics aka Angry Ranting Post!
These are a few of the characteristics that I would love to find in a husband. However, these are also the characteristics …
Why it is so hard [for me] to find an outstanding spouse!
A little waffly preambleOh wow! I have not published any posts to this blog for months and months! In terms of actual …
Dear Mr Huggie-Wuggie: I wanna be your best friend!
Well following my little love story about best friends I’ve been dreaming a lot about a marriage where my husband and I …
PS – Talking about Adultery!
I’ve been reflecting on the post I recently wrote about adultery. I’m so sorry if I was graceless in my post. There …
Goodbye RSS!
After many years and thousands of feeds I have decided to disable the RSS feeds function on this site. The chief reason …
Talking about…adultery!
A few weeks ago I came across the following article, about a famous author who left his wife for another woman. Daily …
Fulfilling his needs!
Well I’ve just written a post which was indirectly all about trying to communicate my needs to my husband – as usual! …
Of husbands and husbandry
I’m sure most people will have come across the idea that women are supposedly irrational or overly emotional. Personally speaking, I have …
Apologies for confusing posts!
I’d like to apologise to anyone who finds my posts confusing! There are two big reasons why this might be (that currently …
Celebrating some amazing friends!
Despite being on this blog, this is a post that is purely about friendships, with people of either gender! So over the …
Let’s talk (again!) about doing the pursuing…
Apologies in advance: this is a particularly waffly post! It is a subject that I struggle to understand, so I have literally …
How to turn someone down
OK, now for the second part of this post: this is the matching part to the first post, how to ask someone …
How to ask someone out
There is now a matching post to this, “How to turn someone down” Well here I am, supposed to be working away. …
Let’s talk about…masturbation!
Ha ha ha, only joking, let’s not!Instead, please check out this incredible video on the subject from this year’s Rhetoric, by a …
Ignoring my Huggie-Wuggie?!
Well today I’ve got to admit that I was in two minds about whether to write a post here or not. On …
Shyness, post script
As a postscript to my previous post, there were a few extra things that occurred to me later. I must admit that …
Let’s talk about…shyness!!!
So it’s that thing where I have not written a post for quite a while on my blog, and for some reason …
To rekindle your fire, try rekindling your friendship!
Well I have been thinking as always about relationships. I can’t quite remember how the following thought process happened in my mind, …
Short Story: Mr and Mrs “Married Three Years”
Pretending to be asleep, I watched my husband as he prepared for the day ahead of him. Still seething from last night's argument, …