How marriage is both conditional and unconditional
Here’s the thing: I believe that to a certain extent marriage has to be conditional. Unconditional love is one of absolutely the …
Fulfilling his needs!
Well I’ve just written a post which was indirectly all about trying to communicate my needs to my husband – as usual! …
Marriage is not an “eat as much as you like” buffet!
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** I think that this post is relevant to all relationship stages, but most useful before marriage to help get a …
Love is sincerely not about the other person! Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here. This post is all about contradictions. Having said that …
Love is sincerely not about the other person! Part 1
Let me firstly apologise for not blogging here for a few weeks. I’ve been otherwise occupied! During that time, my mind has …
The strange balance of marriage
I’ll start with a confession: I have only just thought of this blog post right now, while I was writing the postscript …
Free Ebook: Legitimate Self-Concern Versus Unconditional Love In Marriage
I have personally struggled greatly with the tension between considering my own needs in marriage, and offering unconditional love to my husband …
What if my needs change?
Well I’ve been thinking away about these topics as usual, and thinking about my favourite things…. However a thought that has been …
Two threats to marital love
Over the course of the week, I have been thinking away about marriage, as always. For anyone who follows this blog, you …
Unconditional love versus fear, anger and resentment
I have been thinking a lot about unconditional love recently. After starting off here on this blog with a number of posts, …
Legitimate self-concern versus “unconditional love” in marriage Part 3
This is the third part to this post. The other parts are available here: Legitimate self-concern versus “unconditional love” in marriage Part …
Legitimate self-concern versus “unconditional love” in marriage Part 2
This is the second part to an article posted last week Part 3 of this article is available here The three parts …
Legitimate self-concern versus “unconditional love” in marriage Part 1
The three parts of this post have now been compiled into a single free ebook, available in a wide variety of formats. …
Some thoughts on Sexual Temptation Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here This is all the more true, of course, if …
Some thoughts on Sexual Temptation Part 1
OK, this is a bit of a big post title. Before you read this post, if you are a Christian, I STRONGLY …
The meaning of “For better, for worse”
This is a post that expands an issue that I lightly touched on last week: the meaning of “For better or for …
A little bit of “So There!”
The idea for this article post occurred to me last week even as I was writing out my previous post, and it …
