Things that you take for granted about your life, which might secretly be triggering other people [5 min read]
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From my experience of life thus far, there are some prominent things about my life which I’m quite proud of actually, and which have also triggered other people.
Being happily reminded, once again, of just how little I know! [5 min read]
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The point of this post is [to discuss the fact] that writing this blog sometimes deceives me into thinking I know a lot about relationships…
Happy Valentine’s Day…for anyone celebrating! [6 min read]
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The things represented by Valentine’s Day, the values it represents or speaks to, the feelings it acknowledges, encourages or speaks to, do not intersect with my own relationship hopes or yearnings *at all*.
Dealing with my own worst red flags: disdain [4 min read]
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I have got a very, very ugly aspect of my character which I am mortified about, namely this: I despise people so easily.
Super-spontaneous post: Finally being honest with this blog, also I need to get serious about YouTube vids!
So in this post I am going to finally be fully honest. Actually, you know what? I have always been honest on …
Blog posts to write 17 May 2024
Posts that I have been thinking of writing, hope to get to soon: -False flag Christians: insincere but loud Christians, in essence …
Updated 17 May 24: ONGOING: Talking about dermatillomania and hyperpigmentation
*****Post originally published 24 April 2024***** ***** 17th May 2024, video taken 17th May 2024 So it occurred to me to not …
Getting analytical about the real reason I’ve struggled with friendships…
…and realising that that also flows over into why I struggle to find a husband. For the first time ever it occurs …
Realising that I must never look down on anybody [Thank you for your prayers]
I’d like to say “Thank you for your prayers” once again to anyone who might be praying for me. The thoughts that …
Also…(posts to write)
These are a few expressions of insecurity I have made on this blog recently, which have greatly surprised me, actually! – Gushing: …
Why my future husband *really* does not have to be worried about my past crushes. Really!
Let me start by saying that this post is written unapologetically, and unsubtly for the benefit of a specific person! This is …
Owing it to myself…
Well I had a blog post all drafted out which I was getting ready to post, but then I was second-guessing myself …
Talking about social media…
You know how people say that social media heightens people feeling of depression? Well ironically, I am extremely active on Facebook, but …
To blog…or to sleep?!
I have written many times on this blog about how I often blog when I should be asleep. This is because my …
When humility finally strikes
[Other posts to write: Practising sexual consent within marriage, also needing to be attuned to my husband. My alternative to “falling in …
Frustration!
(Once again, I would like to thank anyone who might have been praying for me. Honestly, I cannot begin to tell you …
The wrongest possible way to be “in the right”!
Before I start, I would once again like to thank anyone who might be praying for me. The rate at which understanding …
Dealing with feelings of jealousy
TL:DR; We are all made in the image of God, we all have unique potentials and capabilities. I LOVE to see people …
Condescending
Let me put my hands up and admit that I do this – a lot! In fact, a heck of a lot. …
Avoiding cheating
Well a few hours ago on Medium I was reading an article about how to spot the signs of cheating. And that …
Confused.me
This is one of those posts that may well be confusing because I am trying to process so many thoughts. Well I …
Understanding Faith and class and marriage
This post has such a benign sounding title. But please be warned, it is extremely angry, and it is emphatically unflattering about …
Actually, I’m a low-tempo kinda person
How humorous it is that out of all the blog posts I’ve been mentally drafting, this one should win – all the …
Marrying my best friend versus speaking the soulmate language
This is yet another one of those posts that occurred to me late at night… Firstly, I realised that what I have …
Spontaneous post: And so it finally happened…
…that my long-suffering parents finally decided to step up their respective games of “Let’s get Tosin married!” For the first time really, …
Rewriting the mental health post
MENTAL HEALTH:I have to rewrite the original post because I do not think I did a good enough job of communicating compassion. …
Shyness in crushes and reasons for attraction
So here I am writing a somewhat ill-advised late night post. A while ago I established that for myself it was a …
My values
These are my values that I believe people need to be aware of before reading this blog. 1. Firstly I am a …