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The things represented by Valentine’s Day, the values it represents or speaks to, the feelings it acknowledges, encourages or speaks to, do not intersect with my own relationship hopes or yearnings *at all*.
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I don’t think that these videos can truly give me an accurate representation of reality, but they can tell me perhaps what people think about love, or they can give me a romanticised idea of love.
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[After a certain experience where someone was thrown into my space for a while], I’m honestly not exaggerating when I tell you that I am grateful to still be alive to write this post…
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This was supposed to be a bold post about what growing up in my house we used to call S. E. X but in the cold light of day I am not feeling quite so bold!
…and realising that that also flows over into why I struggle to find a husband. For the first time ever it occurs …
So this is my second attempt at writing this post tonight. The first attempt did not quite hit the right tone…and I …
I did write this in my last post which I have just published, but it is buried towards the end, possibly missable, …
Well literally just yesterday, (or actually the day before now) I posted a post here asking whether some feelings that had descended …
This is one of those posts which I am going to really struggle to articulate. This is because and only because I …
If as a man you are reading this, you might sometimes be tempted to think that I only care about my own …
[Please note: this post is currently so unedited that it is still in “stream of consciousness” mode, ie writing down all the …
This is yet another one of those posts that occurred to me late at night… Firstly, I realised that what I have …
So I plan to share here a no-holds-barred prayer for myself that unapologetically asks God for absolutely everything maritally, every last thing …
A few provisos before I launch into this post proper. This post is quite spontaneous, so please forgive me if it lacks …
Post 1: Half-married already! Well after just writing this last post in which I desperately tried not to actually say anything of …
Addlog: ********** 22 July 2018 Someone who will pull his own weight domestically, without needing to be asked, begged or nagged ********** …
Well yesterday I read an article which argues that it is unrealistic and impractical to have lists of essential criteria for your …
(Actually most much of the time these days my name is not Tosin – but that is a different story!) So… my …
Well I recently came across a certain article. In it, the writer described how she had taken a vow of sexual purity …
Or, Why do I have such acute emotional needs?! So I was sitting there just minutes ago, just casually and happily minding …
And so, I finally started writing out the post for “my determination for myself as a wife.” But guess what?! It is …
So here is an idea that I’ve been wanting to write about for a few months now. This idea is a little …
HUGE HUGE PROVISO! Before I publish this post, I want to make it clear that I know that I really, really, have …
This is the second part to this post. Part 1: Why the List: Available here Part 2: The Essential Characteristics: THIS POST …
Well last night I wrote and published quite an angry post about unexciting aspects of male character that I would find hard …
These are a few of the characteristics that I would love to find in a husband. However, these are also the characteristics …
Well following my little love story about best friends I’ve been dreaming a lot about a marriage where my husband and I …
Ha ha ha, only joking, let’s not!Instead, please check out this incredible video on the subject from this year’s Rhetoric, by a …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This post is relevant for anyone else who might struggle with shyness. It might also be relevant for people who …
I just came across this site that is dedicated to supporting women who struggle with pornography and sexual addiction. Dirty Girl Ministries
For reasons that regular readers of this blog will probably not be able to eventually escape reading about, (again and again and …
How could I have forgotten this in my super long post?! Yeah, that song!!!! That beautiful and incredible song! Just wow. I …
This is the second entry in my “Fat Hints” category, and thankfully it is a lot shorter than the first one: I …
I think I’m actually going to dedicate a category here on this blog to big fat hints, starting with this post! I’ve …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This is such a personal post – ha ha ha! Possibly an example (yet another one!) of how to be …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** As this is an open letter to my husband, it is quite a personal post about my life, so it …
Dear Lord, If there really is someone out there praying for me; investing his time, effort and determination to make a deeply …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** Once again this post concerns general sexual purity, so I believe that it is generally useful for everyone no matter …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This is not about any particular relationship stage but is written to encourage sexual purity at any stage. ******************************************* Guilt …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This post will hopefully challenge people to imagine what it would be like to be married to them, so I …
Well I’ve just written out a blog post just to try to express my thoughts regarding this “awkward thing”. To be honest, …
Wow, as I sit here typing at this post, I am giggling away, for a number of reasons. A significant reason is …
Please check out this video of one of my relatives discussing her views on sexuality! [youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v_BESQP_0W8[/youtube]
Well I recently wrote a post where I thanked an unknown someone for praying for me. I’ve been meaning to write a …
I think it is fair to say that the idea of wifely submission has been one of my biggest hang-ups about marriage …
OK, I’ll admit it. I have just raced through writing my blog post on my other blog so that I could finally …
Well a few things have happened recently. The conclusion I have come to is that I seriously have to find me a …
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here Imagine for a minute that your chosen partner is …
