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[After a certain experience where someone was thrown into my space for a while], I’m honestly not exaggerating when I tell you that I am grateful to still be alive to write this post…
Marrying my best friend versus speaking the soulmate language
This is yet another one of those posts that occurred to me late at night… Firstly, I realised that what I have …
Updated 22nd July: The ever-growing, but definitive list of Essential Criteria for my husband
Addlog: ********** 22 July 2018 Someone who will pull his own weight domestically, without needing to be asked, begged or nagged ********** …
In defence of essential criteria lists
Well yesterday I read an article which argues that it is unrealistic and impractical to have lists of essential criteria for your …
Tosin’s List: Part 3: Desirable Characteristics
HUGE HUGE PROVISO! Before I publish this post, I want to make it clear that I know that I really, really, have …
Tosin’s List Part 2: The Essential Characteristics
This is the second part to this post. Part 1: Why the List: Available here Part 2: The Essential Characteristics: THIS POST …
The Character Characteristics
Well last night I wrote and published quite an angry post about unexciting aspects of male character that I would find hard …
The Characteristics aka Angry Ranting Post!
These are a few of the characteristics that I would love to find in a husband. However, these are also the characteristics …
Married to Myself?
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This post will hopefully challenge people to imagine what it would be like to be married to them, so I …
Further thoughts about Submission
I think it is fair to say that the idea of wifely submission has been one of my biggest hang-ups about marriage …
Lord, please give me a Prayer Warrior!
Well a few things have happened recently. The conclusion I have come to is that I seriously have to find me a …
Friendship Criteria
Well, after writing a blog post proclaiming that I was not going to write just about myself and my expectations in marriage …
Still more…
Today, I would like to add a couple of further characteristics that I forgot to add to my blog post last week. …
Further Characteristics Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here *My husband has to aspire to be greater than …
Further characteristics for my husband Part 1
Well I have a little confession – that is that I am still writing out the subdivisions of the first essential characteristic …
Characteristic 1.4
Next Characteristic – Christlike character!
Characteristic 1.3 – all sold out!
OK, this is now the third subdivision in my first characteristic for my husband. This is that he has to be completely …
Characteristic 1.2 – No Matter What!
OK, the second subdivision in the First essential Characteristic for my husband is a commitment to remain committed to and deeply rooted …
Characteristic 1.1 – Knowing God
After defining the different parts of the first characteristic (that I will look for in a husband) over the last 2 weeks, …
Characteristic 1 Continued – all for Jesus!
Well last week I started expressing the essential characteristics that I am looking for in my husband. I started off with the …
First Characteristic – All for Jesus!
OK, well in recent weeks I have spoken about necessary criteria for my marriage and the interaction between me and any potential …
Criterion no 3 – Communication
Well I’m only referring to this criterion as no 3 to be orderly/methodical, as over the course of the week I have …
Criterion No 2 – Friendship
OK, now for the second criterion on the list of essential criteria for my husband – perhaps in this case, it would …
Criterion No 1…! ;)
I have just made a very drastic reworking to this criterion. Before reading on to Criterion No 1, please check out this …