March 2026 reminder: Yep, I still want this! [1 min read]
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This is a little note just in case Mr Eventual Huggie-Wuggie is reading this:
Yeah, I definitely want this!
Remembering that the God for feminists is also the God of anti-feminists… [18 min read]
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If people are pressurising you that you need to get married at all costs, please know that this is not from the Bible. Please do not merely take my own word for it, but check out the Bible for yourself.
17 July 2024, lots of thoughts!
17 July 2024, lots of thoughts! This blog post is an attempt both to express my thoughts and to get them straight …
What if you like someone…but are not sure about their culture?
This is hopefully going to be a very quick post, because, once again, I am writing this late into the night – …
Long time no post, awkwardness, community, middle-class churches, labour exploitation versus financial success
I’m so conscious that I have not posted for a few weeks now. I must confess that I am procrastinating a little! …
Spontaneous Sunday (Monday) post, no video yet :(
So today I have as yet not been able to create my Sunday video, for quite good reasons. However, something occurred to …
25 January 2024 Spontaneous video
To correct something I said within the video: yes I have been writing down my blog post ideas pretty much since I …
Thinking about “Rationality”
I’ve just been watching some YouTube “text exchange” videos. To be clear, it is not that that is an official name, I’ve …
Let’s talk about…decision paralysis
“Ponder the path of your feet, And let all your ways be established.” [Also, is a “child-less” life selfish?] You know, one …
Merry Christmas 2021
This is the cutest presentation of the Christian Gospel I have ever seen: this video clip has really made my Christmas this …
A sexist man’s dilemma…
This is one of my spontaneous posts, and it is one of those posts that may well disappear from this blog once …
OK, I know I said “coming soon”, and I do mean that, but…
OK, I know I said “coming soon”, and I do mean that, but… [Perhaps this is completely irrelevant to most people, but …
Christmas Postings!
Well today has been Christmas Day 2018, and I have been somewhat determined to post a post today! But somehow the hours …
The problem with the Church – or “Only perfect men need apply!” or Why my husband needs to be “perfect”
The Bible assumes sincerity. Certain instructions in the Bible assume sincerity – like a chemical reaction. Don’t be surprised if there is …
Horror Stories for Halloween 4: More Kings and Queens
Here are a few more articles about potential horror stories in relationships. From Trophy wives to toxic wives: This article talks about …
Horror Stories for Halloween 3: The Unexpected Proposal
Yes, I know that Halloween is well and truly over, but the horror within relationships continues! Thankfully the issue discussed in this …
Horror Stories for Halloween 2a: Kings and their Queens
So this is a Halloween Relationship Horror story with a difference: What if the man you married always treated you perfectly, like …
Horror Stories for Halloween No 1: Hell
This is really not what I had in mind when I was talking about Horror Stories for Halloween. However, I think that …
Horror Stories for Halloween – Introduction
Well if I was to start talking about Halloween, and I was to start talking about my faith, perhaps some people would …
Well today…or the power of praying
Well today has been a seriously “interesting” day, and not in a good way. This is an old-fashioned term, but I’ve definitely …
Overcoming my dermatillomania (please Lord!)
So today I would like to talk about something that to be honest, I would much rather not have to admit to. …
Statistically speaking…
So today, I was reading an article about cognitive biases. These are the errors of logic, judgement or reasoning which we are …
So I read some posts today!
PREAMBLE Well today I was reading some stories online about what people have experienced in their relationships. On one hand, these were …
“Doing the chasing”, versus mental and emotional health
I’ve been thinking a lot about mental health recently, both within and outside the topic of relationships. Thankfully God has blessed me …
But what do we have in common?!
I was just thinking about this concept while sitting on public transport a few hours ago, and these are the thoughts that …
Sorry for the recent silence!
Sorry for the recent silence on this blog everyone! I’ve faced a few acute challenges in terms of being busy, and over …
Overcoming loneliness, a possible solution (please Lord!)
This is quite a spontaneous post. Apologies if it does not really make sense, I am going to have to reflect on …
To blog or not to blog?!
Well I had hoped and confidently expected that I would be able to write a post over this bank holiday weekend. You …
Overcoming Loneliness – 2nd Edit
I really should be fast asleep just now. In fact, I find myself in exactly the same circumstance I was in earlier …
Things I need to work on: Practising Kindness
This is something I have been thinking of for ages! Like years and years and years – since before I wrote *that* …
Happy 7th Birthday to Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie!
Yep, it’s been seven good years of writing this blog! And here I am as single as ever! I’m trying to cast …
→ January 14, 2018
1. The “Friendship” blog should actually have two distinct categories: “Friends” for dealing with people who are actually friends, and “People” for …
Huggie-Wuggie: this time next year…
So here we are at the beginning of yet another new year… I can’t help wondering what this new year might bring …
When faith dies
Let me start off by reassuring any readers that no, my faith has not died. And by the grace of God it …
What’s waiting for you at the end of your tether?
Quick answer: whatever you have prepared, so prepare well. This blog is not really the place for this particular post. However I …
Like father, like daughter!
Oh man, I just have to share with you verbatim what my Dad just said! Talking about the tragedy of the Texas …
Let’s talk about…power dynamics in relationships!
or, Why can’t you and I both be powerful?! Actually, before I launch into the post proper I have to confess that …
Deep conditioning your marriage
I’ve recently been getting into looking after my natural afro hair. But I’m trying to find a quick, easy, inexpensive way of …
How do you know he is not going to beat you?!
Related in a way to the previous question, “How do you know he is not going to be unfaithful?”… This really is …
How do you know he’s not going to be unfaithful..?
Someone once asked me how I knew that my husband was not going to be unfaithful. And I just stared! It is …
The Lie of Capitalism
I know what you might be thinking: “Tosin, what is a post about Capitalism doing on your Huggie-Wuggie blog?! Have you possibly …
Internet Dating: Postscript
I initially published this post back in 2012, then I unpublished it, for reasons which I have now completely forgotten… ————————————————————– A …
Hearts and Character
Well I have just written this post on my Bible blog, but I was feeling so riled and worked up about this …
Let’s talk about money, baby! Crunching the numbers
I’ve been thinking quite a lot about this since I published my earlier “let’s talk about money” posts: it’s all very well …
Why it is so hard to find an outstanding spouse: now edited
This post has been majorly revised, the new version is available here: https://hugwug.tosinsbibleblog.com/blog/editing-why-it-is-so-hard-to-find-an-outstanding-spouse/ I initially drafted out this post back in March …
Cringey Posts
I was recently reading/giggling through a certain post here, and thinking, for the hundredth time, just how cringey this post is! And …
Let’s talk about money baby! Accounting – further holes: large gifts
I’ve recently thought of a very significant further hole in the idea of spouses having individual accounts as well as communal family …
Let’s talk about money, baby! Accounting for our differences
In addition to the out and out bad character which I looked at in the other part to this post, these are some …