QUICKPOST: Why I’m secretly dreaming of a “lazy” husband
If you are a man, and a potential romantic interaction between us had progressed to the point where we were now actively …
QUICKPOST: On the Meghan Markle Malarkey and talkin’ bout tall guys
Oh wow, I have not written here for almost a month (barring a post which I decided to make private). A very …
But surely, I’m better than *nothing*!
Have you ever been in a situation with someone….who refuses to get the message, that you are not interested in building any …
What happiness means to me
Time for one of those spontaneous posts, methinks! I have just been reading a few posts on the BBC site about what …
Let’s talk yet again about alcohol!
Note to readers: Please bear with me, this post is very much in the cut and paste stage, where I am just …
External Post: “How my teenage friendships impacted my adult romantic relationships”
Of late I have often suspected that my youthful weakness in friendships might contribute to my adult confusion in romantic relationships. And …
External Post: I Had a Damned Good Reason for Leaving My Perfect Husband
This tender but sad love story excellently demonstrates why you need to be honest with yourself and your spouse before getting married …
Thinking of instability, thanking for instability
So a few hours ago on Christmas day, here I was sitting at my desk, wanting to type out a festive post. …
Fed up of cooking?
SUPER SPONTANEOUS! BIG DISCLAIMER: Apart from the “baked camembert”, I’ve not actually tried any of the recipes I’ve linked to on this …
Compatibility and Commitment
You know, I’ve been kinda obsessed with character for a long time on this blog! However I have just read an article …
Marrying my best friend versus speaking the soulmate language
This is yet another one of those posts that occurred to me late at night… Firstly, I realised that what I have …
Enough is Enough! Social Justice Thoughts
Well almost three years ago to the day, I wrote a post stating that I wanted to set up a social justice …
Pursuing Christlikeness is Everything. Really
[I was originally going to call this post “Character is King.” Well after writing it, I will amend that to this: “Character …
Forgiveness: The Difference between “Forgiveness” and “Forgiveness”
Apologies, this post might be somewhat triggering for domestic violence. Like “Infatuation”, Forgiveness is a topic I have tried to write about …
Radical Commitment to Christ?!
OK Christians, please be honest here! What is the first thing that goes through your mind when I suggest a radical commitment …
Let’s talk more about community!
So I’m just sitting here thinking/praying “Lord, I’m lonely! And I really don’t know how to deal with it!” In a way …
Tosin, The No-Drama Queen!
Apologies, this post is a bit rambly, I’ve just literally poured out everything on my mind! OK, I’ve just literally been up …
And….back to the blog!
Over the last one and a half years, I have tried a radical new format for “Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie”. However I don’t …
What Community means to me…
Well, it really has been a while! I was thinking overnight about how deeply my heart beats for community. Actually prior to …
Brand new project: CLASSICALIS
I know I’ve been quite quiet on this blog of late. All the same, I have been working away if not directly …
Spontaneous post: And so it finally happened…
…that my long-suffering parents finally decided to step up their respective games of “Let’s get Tosin married!” For the first time really, …
An idea…
I’m sure that many readers will have heard, read, or watched the uploaded video of the incident between Amy Cooper and Christian …
UPDATED: A way forward for “Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie” 02 May 2020
02 May 2020I hope everyone is keeping well in these COVID-challenged times. I wanted to share a few further thoughts I have …
Happy 9th Birthday to this Blog!
So it was the 9th birthday of this blog last month, but I could not log in because I was locked out….and …
Rewriting the mental health post
MENTAL HEALTH:I have to rewrite the original post because I do not think I did a good enough job of communicating compassion. …
Shyness in crushes and reasons for attraction
So here I am writing a somewhat ill-advised late night post. A while ago I established that for myself it was a …
What “Unconditional Love” truly means for a Christian
This is a post that I have been trying to write for a very long time, but I’ve been seriously struggling with …
A sexist man’s dilemma…
This is one of my spontaneous posts, and it is one of those posts that may well disappear from this blog once …
My values
These are my values that I believe people need to be aware of before reading this blog. 1. Firstly I am a …
Why I have not been praying for my marriage
I’ve just gotten off the phone to a dear Aunty who is setting up a ministry for mature single women. Oh man, …
Who this blog is not for
This post is a little tongue-in-cheek, but it is also quite serious. I was inspired to write this post after rereading an …
Most Radical Ideas
Last updated: 27th November 2022 I believe that this blog has a few ideas which are deeply, deeply radical. I believe that …
How to read this blog: Last updated 29 Dec 2019
Trying to work out a suitable and user-friendly way of navigating this blog has been possibly the biggest challenge I have faced …
Why you should read this blog! Last Updated 28th Dec 2019
PLEASE NOTE: This post is an extremely important post. However the thoughts are on it are expressed a little haphazardly just now. …
Why you should read this blog! Last Updated 28th Dec 2019
PLEASE NOTE: This post is an extremely important post. However the thoughts are on it are expressed a little haphazardly just now. …
Tosin’s Decluttering (Sub)Blog – Post 1
Man, I was so determined to write a post today! I was thinking something “Huggie-Wuggie”, but nothing seemed to really click – …
Finally getting to blog!
Wow, my last post on this blog was even longer ago than I realised! Man, how I have itched to publish a …
Late night ponderings: male colleagues, tube strangers and the friendzone
Oh Huggie-Wuggie, how I’ve missed you! Firstly, apologies in advance if this post is a whole heap of incoherent nonsense – I’ll …
Talking about…Josh H
Josh H is one of the biggest inspirations behind this blog. His book “I Kissed Dating Goodbye” has deeply (deeply!) influenced my …
Talking about…Josh H
Josh H is one of the biggest inspirations behind this blog. His book “I Kissed Dating Goodbye” has deeply (deeply!) influenced my …
I’m back!
So here I am back on Huggie-Wuggie. To be honest I’ve got a few big decisions to make about how to move …
Offlining!
I’m going to be taking a break from posting on this blog for the whole month of September, and possibly also the …
Eureka! I have found it!!!
(Or rather, God has given it to me!!! No, not a husband!!!!) As I was literally just creating my previous post here, …
OK, I know I said “coming soon”, and I do mean that, but…
OK, I know I said “coming soon”, and I do mean that, but… [Perhaps this is completely irrelevant to most people, but …
Stonking New Year’s prayer for myself
So I plan to share here a no-holds-barred prayer for myself that unapologetically asks God for absolutely everything maritally, every last thing …
Dealing with toxic people
Well I was just reading yet another post about how to deal with “toxic people”. And here are a few thoughts on …
Christmas Postings!
Well today has been Christmas Day 2018, and I have been somewhat determined to post a post today! But somehow the hours …
Why women should be the ones running away from the bouquet
https://www.facebook.com/Pretty52Official/videos/297027887757841/ This article seriously needs links to validate my various claims: I hope to add some shortly, perhaps over the Christmas break! …