The problem with the Church – or “Only perfect men need apply!” or Why my husband needs to be “perfect”
The Bible assumes sincerity. Certain instructions in the Bible assume sincerity – like a chemical reaction. Don’t be surprised if there is …
Trying not to say “the D word”…
A few provisos before I launch into this post proper. This post is quite spontaneous, so please forgive me if it lacks …
Half-married already! AND Expecting too much?
Post 1: Half-married already! Well after just writing this last post in which I desperately tried not to actually say anything of …
Needing “Mr Huggie-Wuggie” the blog, not the man!
(Well of course I need the man too, it’s just that in this post my focus is on the blog rather than …
True love story: Barack and Michelle (external link)
Article Link here I have so much respect for this couple and for their marriage. Their marriage seems to be a true …
True love story: Matt and Laura (external link)
Well after all those horror stories for Halloween, here is one beautiful story of seeming true love: this couple Matt and Laura …
Horror Stories for Halloween 4: More Kings and Queens
Here are a few more articles about potential horror stories in relationships. From Trophy wives to toxic wives: This article talks about …
Horror Stories for Halloween 3: The Unexpected Proposal
Yes, I know that Halloween is well and truly over, but the horror within relationships continues! Thankfully the issue discussed in this …
Horror Stories for Halloween 2a: Kings and their Queens
So this is a Halloween Relationship Horror story with a difference: What if the man you married always treated you perfectly, like …
Horror Stories for Halloween No 1: Hell
This is really not what I had in mind when I was talking about Horror Stories for Halloween. However, I think that …
Horror Stories for Halloween – Introduction
Well if I was to start talking about Halloween, and I was to start talking about my faith, perhaps some people would …
Making some changes!
I am currently making some changes to the appearance of this blog. I am tweaking some settings etc. So please do not …
And so we have SSL! (HTTPS://)
So a SSL certificate has recently been activated on this site, and this blog has now been transferred to the https protocol. …
Humbilify! – Updated
EDIT ADDED 5TH OCTOBER 2018 Well in the two days it has been since I wrote this post, I have actually been …
Well today…or the power of praying
Well today has been a seriously “interesting” day, and not in a good way. This is an old-fashioned term, but I’ve definitely …
Let’s talk about R.E.S.P.E.C.T!
OK, just a little disclaimer before I start this post. The title of this post is taken from the Aretha Franklin song, …
Overcoming my dermatillomania (please Lord!)
So today I would like to talk about something that to be honest, I would much rather not have to admit to. …
Statistically speaking…
So today, I was reading an article about cognitive biases. These are the errors of logic, judgement or reasoning which we are …
Updated 22nd July: The ever-growing, but definitive list of Essential Criteria for my husband
Addlog: ********** 22 July 2018 Someone who will pull his own weight domestically, without needing to be asked, begged or nagged ********** …
Love versus infatuation: I think I finally get it!
Well just a few days ago, I was sadly reflecting to myself that despite all these years of thinking, reading, reflecting – …
So I read some posts today!
PREAMBLE Well today I was reading some stories online about what people have experienced in their relationships. On one hand, these were …
“Doing the chasing”, versus mental and emotional health
I’ve been thinking a lot about mental health recently, both within and outside the topic of relationships. Thankfully God has blessed me …
Becoming Mrs Outstanding
I really don’t have much time to put together a post today, so this is going to have to be very short …
But what do we have in common?!
I was just thinking about this concept while sitting on public transport a few hours ago, and these are the thoughts that …
Sorry for the recent silence!
Sorry for the recent silence on this blog everyone! I’ve faced a few acute challenges in terms of being busy, and over …
Overcoming loneliness, a possible solution (please Lord!)
This is quite a spontaneous post. Apologies if it does not really make sense, I am going to have to reflect on …
To blog or not to blog?!
Well I had hoped and confidently expected that I would be able to write a post over this bank holiday weekend. You …
Overcoming Loneliness – 2nd Edit
I really should be fast asleep just now. In fact, I find myself in exactly the same circumstance I was in earlier …
Things I need to work on: Practising Kindness
This is something I have been thinking of for ages! Like years and years and years – since before I wrote *that* …
In defence of essential criteria lists
Well yesterday I read an article which argues that it is unrealistic and impractical to have lists of essential criteria for your …
My name is Tosin and…(Random Ramblings)
(Actually most much of the time these days my name is not Tosin – but that is a different story!) So… my …
Happy 7th Birthday to Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie!
Yep, it’s been seven good years of writing this blog! And here I am as single as ever! I’m trying to cast …
Happy Valentine’s Day 2018!
Wishing all readers of this blog a Happy Valentine’s Day, and week! I hope that you’ve all had an amazing day. For …
As with relationships, so with friendships – learning to be extremely fussy!
And so here we are at the point when I am finally asserting that when it comes to friendships, you have to …
10 Empowering New Year Prayers for Singles for 2018
So it is the beginning of yet another New Year, and you are still single! Well you’re in great company! (Points at …
→ January 14, 2018
1. The “Friendship” blog should actually have two distinct categories: “Friends” for dealing with people who are actually friends, and “People” for …
10 Beautiful New Year Prayers for your Marriage
New years are a great time to take stock, and look back in gratitude for the year that has just ended, and …
Friendships/People: Super Spontaneous!
These thoughts are literally just occurring to me now, when I’m supposed to be doing other things! Thoughts that occurred to me: …
Friendship: But we agreed!
I just spontaneously wanted to write this post to express some of the irks I feel about friendships. Before I jump into …
Friendship: Making a start!
Well I finally started my social justice blog, and now for the turn of the friendship blog, which is also something I’ve …
Huggie-Wuggie: this time next year…
So here we are at the beginning of yet another new year… I can’t help wondering what this new year might bring …
Social Justice: Remembering my Materialistic Youth
Well I said that I would challenge myself to make a start on this social justice blog before the end of this …
Happy New Year 2018
This post comes to wish all readers of “Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie” a Happy New Year in 2018! I hope that you will …
Merry Christmas, and please help with this new blog idea!
I would really like to wish all the readers of “Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie” an amazing Christmas season, or what remains of it. …
When faith dies
Let me start off by reassuring any readers that no, my faith has not died. And by the grace of God it …
Bible Verse: 1 John 4v18
1 John 4v18 There is no fear in love, but perfect love drives out fear. Photo by Mbll on Pixabay
Bible Verse: 1 John 4v8
1 John 4v8 God is love. Photo by Geralt on Pixabay
Bible Verse: 1 John 4v7
1 John 4v7 Beloved, let us love one another, for love is of God, and everyone who loves is born of God …