Please come back in 5 years time!
Well it turns out that thi s day of the year, October 16th, has historically been a very prolific date in the …
The Primacy of Friendship OR putting friendship first
This is an idea that has only really crystallised in my mind today. On this blog I have spoken so many times …
Yet another “Haven’t posted for so long!” post! – Or, passionately in friendship
Well after what seems like months of not quite getting around to writing a post, I am in exactly that kind of …
Dear Mr Huggie-Wuggie: I wanna be your best friend!
Well following my little love story about best friends I’ve been dreaming a lot about a marriage where my husband and I …
Strands and Building Blocks
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** I think that this post is relevant to people who are considering whether to get married, for instance people who …
Already desperately in love!
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** If what I describe in this post is truly how many of us “fall in love”, then I think that …
How women make themselves cheap
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** I think that this post is most relevant for women who are single and looking, encouraging them to insist on …
Marriage is not an “eat as much as you like” buffet!
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** I think that this post is relevant to all relationship stages, but most useful before marriage to help get a …
So many ways to have a great marriage… And yet…
I was thinking recently over some of the thoughts that I have expressed here, and a few other ideas. And something that …
OBSESSED!!!! And rightly so! And about time!!!!! And *proud* of it!!!!!
OK, I’ll admit it. I have just raced through writing my blog post on my other blog so that I could finally …
Whatever you want in marriage – postscript
Well I was thinking about my last post which greatly focused on marriage and sex, and I thought it would be wise …
Whatever you want in marriage… Part 3
This is the third part to this post. The first is available here The second is available here Even if you are …
Whatever you want in marriage… Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here Imagine for a minute that your chosen partner is …
Whatever you want in marriage… Part 1
In this post, I am going to make quite a bold claim. I was thinking about this vaguely a few weeks ago. …
How do I know if he’s my friend?! Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here In our days, we have the benefits of modern …
All about two years Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here. However, if you had simply allowed yourself to get …
All about two years Part 1
In this blog post I would like to write about my personal conviction regarding “the two year thing”. For people who do …
Within the marriage itself… Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here If however, you did not spend the same time …
Within the marriage itself… Part 1
In my last post, I looked at a new and simple way to approach relationships before marriage to give each marriage the …
Revised relationship schedule Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here POTENTIAL PROBLEMS: This is possibly the biggest potential problem …
Revised relationship schedule Part 1
Happy New Year to all readers of this blog! I’m kinda hoping to keep to a more systematic schedule myself for writing …
Anticipating the Pressure Points of your marriage
This is as usual a blog post that I have been thinking of for some time. I was thinking that in a …
Expecting “perfect” behaviour from imperfect people Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here In a way, I feel then that this message …
Expecting “perfect” behaviour from imperfect people Part 1
I was thinking recently about one big reason why many people face disappointment in marriage. To put it simply, life presents many …
The difference between love and lust Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here. I guess though there is also the very important …
The difference between love and lust Part 1
I came across an article with this same title a few weeks ago. It was also from a Christian writer. I had …
Building a heavy-duty marriage Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first part is available here Following on from this, here are a few …
Building a heavy-duty marriage – Part 1
Well today (that is, when I first wrote out this post) I was going to publish a post about building a heavy-duty …
Why the time before your marriage can be the most powerful part of your marriage
I am sure I have expressed these thoughts before on this blog, perhaps scattered through different blog posts. I believe that the …
I don’t love you any more!
I sometimes wonder why it is in the midst of hard times that people break up. I always think that that is …
Re – more on when the relationship starts
Answer to a question from a Facebook friend: “What do you think differentiates two people who are going out from ordinary friendships?” …
Your Wedding day is NOT your marriage! (Sweetie!)
This is a blog post especially for the ladies out there! Actually, you know what? I think weddings SHOULD be celebrated elaborately, …
When does the relationship start?
Obviously, as Christians, certain parts of your relationship can (ok, should) ONLY start after you get married – like sex, and all …
Friendship Criteria
Well, after writing a blog post proclaiming that I was not going to write just about myself and my expectations in marriage …
Very drastic reworking! (Of Criterion No1)
Well, the truth is that I continue to think about my blog posts after I have written them, and I mentally edit …
Joshua Harris – I Kissed Dating Goodbye
Joshua Harris – I Kissed Dating Goodbye Many of my thoughts on relationships which could potentially lead to marriage and also my …
Students of Marriage
This article was originally written for my weekly Facebook notes feature, called Sunday Notes on Sunday 28 November 2010 ———————————————————————————– Proverbs 3v13-18 …
Thoughts on life, love and marriage
I am so excited that I’ve finally launched this blog. It’s going to be a blog about thoughts, insights and meditations on …
