Sexual Purity as a Feminist choice
Well I recently came across a certain article. In it, the writer described how she had taken a vow of sexual purity …
Editing: Why it is so hard to find an outstanding spouse
So today I find myself in the position of wanting to make substantial changes to an existing post. But how to do …
The Lie of Capitalism
I know what you might be thinking: “Tosin, what is a post about Capitalism doing on your Huggie-Wuggie blog?! Have you possibly …
Why it is so hard to find an outstanding spouse: now edited
This post has been majorly revised, the new version is available here: https://blog.huggie-wuggie.com/editing-why-it-is-so-hard-to-find-an-outstanding-spouse/ I initially drafted out this post back in March …
Running the race of Character
If you were asked to spontaneously run a race or obstacle course without any warning at all, then your achievement in the …
Let’s talk about money, baby! Character issues
Thinking about money, on one hand I can be extremely romantic! I will say about my husband: “Money doesn’t matter!” That is, …
Tosin’s List: Part 3: Desirable Characteristics
HUGE HUGE PROVISO! Before I publish this post, I want to make it clear that I know that I really, really, have …
Tosin’s List! Part One – Why the List!
Edit: 2nd July 2016 Now that I’ve had a chance to think about this a bit more, I think that this post …
Marriage is not an “eat as much as you like” buffet!
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** I think that this post is relevant to all relationship stages, but most useful before marriage to help get a …
So many ways to have a great marriage… And yet…
I was thinking recently over some of the thoughts that I have expressed here, and a few other ideas. And something that …
Whatever you want in marriage – postscript
Well I was thinking about my last post which greatly focused on marriage and sex, and I thought it would be wise …
Whatever you want in marriage… Part 3
This is the third part to this post. The first is available here The second is available here Even if you are …
Whatever you want in marriage… Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here Imagine for a minute that your chosen partner is …
Whatever you want in marriage… Part 1
In this post, I am going to make quite a bold claim. I was thinking about this vaguely a few weeks ago. …
How do I know if he’s my friend?! Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here In our days, we have the benefits of modern …
All about two years Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here. However, if you had simply allowed yourself to get …
All about two years Part 1
In this blog post I would like to write about my personal conviction regarding “the two year thing”. For people who do …
Expecting “perfect” behaviour from imperfect people Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here In a way, I feel then that this message …
Expecting “perfect” behaviour from imperfect people Part 1
I was thinking recently about one big reason why many people face disappointment in marriage. To put it simply, life presents many …
The difference between love and lust Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here. I guess though there is also the very important …
The difference between love and lust Part 1
I came across an article with this same title a few weeks ago. It was also from a Christian writer. I had …
Free Ebook: The difference between no-one’s perfect…and no-one’s perfect
This is an ebook of an existing post here on Finding Mr Huggie Wuggie. It is available as a free ebook in …
Free Ebook: Is There Only One? Knowing the Will of God in Marriage
This is an ebook of an existing post here on Finding Mr Huggie Wuggie. It is available as a free ebook in …
Avoiding Mr Perfect
This is a blog post which might seem to say the opposite of what I usually say. However, by the grace of …
How to pray to receive a spouse – further thoughts
I’ve previously written a post about how to pray for a spouse. This post here builds on that previous post. This new …
Excellent wife material? Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here. I do not think that there is anything wrong …
Excellent wife material? Part 1
I’m going to apologise in advance as this post is largely about myself, so it might have limited relevance to other people! …
A real man versus Mr Wonderful Dream
This is an idea that in a way flows quite smoothly on from the post of love versus infatuation which I wrote …
The difference between love and infatuation
Well Happy Valentine’s Day everyone! In honour of Valentine’s day I am going to write today on a subject that is very …
Everybody changes!
Last week I considered the subject of how to be confident, even from before marriage, that a future spouse will keep getting better …
The difference between no-one’s perfect…and no-one’s perfect Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here Overtaking? Sometimes, if someone is aggressively pursuing excellence, even …
The difference between no-one’s perfect…and no-one’s perfect Part 1
The content of this post is now available as a free ebook from Smashwords, in a wide variety of formats here When …
Ditching the toxic “marriage maths mentality” Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here Actually, I believe that everyone has the potential to …
Ditching the toxic “marriage maths mentality” Part 1
This post is about mathematical issues regarding finding a spouse, and why I believe people (and especially women) should have the courage …
Just because he marries you…
OK last week, we looked at the Proverb of the Milk and the Cow, which encourages ladies to insist on the highest …
The Proverb of the Milk and the Cow Part 3
This is the third part to this post. The first is available here The second is available here This then is the …
The Proverb of the Milk and the Cow Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here So what difference then do you think that marriage …
The Proverb of the Milk and the Cow Part 1
This post is now available here as a free ebook in a full variety of ebook formats. Today I am going to …
Friendship Criteria
Well, after writing a blog post proclaiming that I was not going to write just about myself and my expectations in marriage …
Further Characteristics Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here *My husband has to aspire to be greater than …
Further characteristics for my husband Part 1
Well I have a little confession – that is that I am still writing out the subdivisions of the first essential characteristic …
Characteristic 1.3 – all sold out!
OK, this is now the third subdivision in my first characteristic for my husband. This is that he has to be completely …
Characteristic 1.2 – No Matter What!
OK, the second subdivision in the First essential Characteristic for my husband is a commitment to remain committed to and deeply rooted …
Characteristic 1.1 – Knowing God
After defining the different parts of the first characteristic (that I will look for in a husband) over the last 2 weeks, …
Why I don’t care about your money – Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here It annoys me when someone drives up in a …
Why I don’t care about your money – Part 1
This is a wall post I recently borrowed from a Facebook friend to post on my own Facebook wall: “To all the …
Characteristic 1 Continued – all for Jesus!
Well last week I started expressing the essential characteristics that I am looking for in my husband. I started off with the …
First Characteristic – All for Jesus!
OK, well in recent weeks I have spoken about necessary criteria for my marriage and the interaction between me and any potential …
Criterion no 3 – Communication
Well I’m only referring to this criterion as no 3 to be orderly/methodical, as over the course of the week I have …
Criterion No 2 – Friendship
OK, now for the second criterion on the list of essential criteria for my husband – perhaps in this case, it would …
Criterion No 1…! ;)
I have just made a very drastic reworking to this criterion. Before reading on to Criterion No 1, please check out this …
Is there only one? Or knowing the will of God in marriage Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here I just cannot accept these thoughts. It makes more …
Is there only one? Or knowing the will of God in marriage Part 1
OK, this is a post that I have been thinking about for quite a while. I have found myself getting into discussions …
Finding a good wife! Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first part is available here. Also, in our particular church, there are no …
Finding a good wife! Part 1
This article was originally written for my Facebook weekly Sunday Notes feature on Sunday 17 October 2010 ———————————————————————————— Proverbs 18.22 “He who …
Concerns about Dating Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here However, in addition to Pastor I’s comments, I would …
Concerns about Dating Part 1
This article was originally written for my weekly Facebook notes feature, called Sunday notes, on Sunday 24 October 2010 ———————————————————————————– Song of …
