Talking about 50:50! [AI External Video] [3 min read]
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A nuanced, realistic but sympathetic view of a common problem in 50:50 marriages
This woman’s story is *exactly* why I am not going near anyone sexually until I am financially stable in my own right
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As a woman, it is all too easy to be left struggling financially at the end of a marriage, and I would not want to subject children to that
External AI Movie: A husband’s insecurity [8 min read]
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A fictional example of a man’s insecurity functioning as a glass ceiling over his wife’s progress…
…And now I really want to date through Madrid! 😂😂😂 [9 min read]
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An exciting dating idea: trying out authentic local flavours across European cities
Soft Life Dreams (More accurately called “Yet another church rant”!) [26 min read]
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So I used to attend a church which I have previously ranted about on my various blogs. Ultimately the Pastor treated me carelessly blah blah blah what a surprise!
Things that you take for granted about your life, which might secretly be triggering other people [5 min read]
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From my experience of life thus far, there are some prominent things about my life which I’m quite proud of actually, and which have also triggered other people.
Links now working again! [1 min read]
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I have now conducted a site wide “search and replace”, and I hope it is true that all links are now working again.
True Story: Chanel’s House and Chanel Boateng: Surviving Marriage to a Nigerian ‘Pastor’.. Our Wife: (My Story)- Part 1.. [3 min read] ⏯️
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Response to: Surviving Marriage to a Nigerian ‘Pastor’.. Our Wife: (My Story)- Part 1..
Apologies for broken links! [2 min read]
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I must apologise to anyone who has been encountering broken links on this website over the last few months.
Yeah, I’m finally calling it: I simply don’t believe in romantic “love” like that! [17 min read]
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A better title for this post would be “Why it is dangerous to lead with love and romance in a relationship even if like me that is what you are looking for”.
Being happily reminded, once again, of just how little I know! [5 min read] ⏯️
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The point of this post is [to discuss the fact] that writing this blog sometimes deceives me into thinking I know a lot about relationships…
Land of the silver birch….Rediscovering parts of me that I have buried [16 min read] ⏯️
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The minor scale that it is written in and the lyrics just speak to me of nostalgia, or memory, of love for a place, of the natural rhythms of life.
March 2026 reminder: Yep, I still want this! [1 min read]
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This is a little note just in case Mr Eventual Huggie-Wuggie is reading this:
Yeah, I definitely want this!
Happy Valentine’s Day…for anyone celebrating! [6 min read]
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The things represented by Valentine’s Day, the values it represents or speaks to, the feelings it acknowledges, encourages or speaks to, do not intersect with my own relationship hopes or yearnings *at all*.
Still talking about YouTube Afro-Korean dramas [17 min read]
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I don’t think that these videos can truly give me an accurate representation of reality, but they can tell me perhaps what people think about love, or they can give me a romanticised idea of love.
AI, Afro-Korean Youtube romances, and the interplay between love and sex [15 min read] ⏯️
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I have previously stated on this blog that I watch lots of YouTube videos. Just now, my brain craves constant stimulation or cheap dopamine so I often just keep scrolling from vid to vid.
Looking to see the reality behind the effort [16 min read]
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This entire blog deals with just how easy it is to marry a poor choice of husband, and this post specifically.
New Thoughts subblog now closed [1 min read]
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New Thoughts Sub blog now closed
New blog address [1 min read]
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Please note, if you visit this blog a lot, you might need to clear your browser cache specifically for this domain name "https://hugwug.tosinsbibleblog.com/"
Pretension and lies… [6 min read]
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In the world of the rich… many places or establishments charge a huge premium for what, ultimately, is often *exactly the same* as is available at far more modest prices…often exactly the same brands, from the same bottles.
Well hello again! [9 min read]
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[After a certain experience where someone was thrown into my space for a while], I’m honestly not exaggerating when I tell you that I am grateful to still be alive to write this post…
A critique of Evangelical (Calvinistic) faith [9 min read]
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This is a critique of everything flawed I’ve noticed or experienced about Calvinistic faith, demonstrating that it is not a sincere expression of Biblical faith. Shrug. Sorry not sorry.
Remembering that the God for feminists is also the God of anti-feminists… [18 min read] ⏯️
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If people are pressurising you that you need to get married at all costs, please know that this is not from the Bible. Please do not merely take my own word for it, but check out the Bible for yourself.
Lack of images in blog posts…[1 min read]
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Well I’ve finally got an excuse for not putting images on my blog posts…
Sunday 27th July 2025: Introducing “Joyrotica”? [19 min read]
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This was supposed to be a bold post about what growing up in my house we used to call S. E. X but in the cold light of day I am not feeling quite so bold!
Sunday 4th May 2025: Important ideas I have come across [10 min read]
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Now here is the thing…it might be obvious to many others as it definitely is obvious to me that you will simply never find someone with whom you are 100% compatible.
Public Service Announcement: A single woman does not strictly “need” a man’s leadership [12 min read]
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So because God has granted leadership in marriage to men, does that then mean that every woman then needs a man to lead her? No, no it doesn’t.
Dealing with my own worst red flags: disdain [4 min read]
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I have got a very, very ugly aspect of my character which I am mortified about, namely this: I despise people so easily.
Society needs women to make poor choices [11 min read]
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For society to function in the most stable and sustainable way, it is necessary for women to make choices that are not in our individual best interests.
Hello again! Still madly “in like” after all these years! [6 min read]
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To me, this video shows a couple who are still genuinely excited about one another, even after 25 years of marriage.
15+ years later, finally working out how to organise this blog… [11 min read]
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Since I started writing this blog, I have been trying to work out how best to organise it.
Finally back on this blog: From “Avoid avoid avoid” to “Go go go!”: a holy, funny, passionate love story [21 min read]
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The premise for a pure and holy romance which is sex-positive without being sexually explicit…