1. Married to myself: Woman in china, recent woman, etc
2. Welcome to the friendzone!
3. Relationship ambivalence – can’t remember the point of this!!!! 😉
4. Difference between personality and character
5. Friendship needs a shared context/platform
6. rejection versus deselection
7. Let’s save sex for marriage!
8. How women make themselves cheap
9. yet further thoughts about playing hard to get: a cheap alternative to 2 year thing
10. A spouse as a business investment
11. How to be truly beautiful
12. My name is Tosin and I am an introvert!
13. Commitment undergirds Passion – always: passion is good, but commitment comes first:
Your beautiful body belongs to your future wife, not to the sordid capabilities of my imagination; different relationships fail because they put passion first
What is it in you that I am committing to? I need to see it first, before I know whether I truly can commit to it. Perhaps that is what makes someone “stable” versus “unstable” – committed to central characteristics within themselves
14. How to know who truly loves you
15. Marriage is not an eat as much as you like buffet, rather it is a serve your spouse as much as they need workshop